Busted! Thanks to Joshua Pellicer, we just got busted. That’s right, ladies. He has figured out all our moves. Mastering the art of reading body language, he has come up with a list. It states and explains the positive language we unconsciously speak when we’re attracted to the guy.
The list compiles some of our moves that say we’re into the guy. And if every guy should know about it, so should every girl. So here are just a few of our moves that he’s got on the list.
A Quick Look Down With A Smile
Okay, ladies. Apparently, this is a dead give away. We’re out on a date with a hot guy. We’re into a conversation and suddenly we look down and smile. And there we go. We just let off that first obvious signal that we like the guy.
I never thought about this until now. But I must say that it is a revealing sign. Picturing myself with a hot date, I really would look down iand smile. That is, if I like him. Personally, if I were conversing with someone (not necessarily a with a hot date) I would look up instead. That’s because I’m thinking of what to say next. Hence, I need to come up with a response. So I need to think about it. And that requires me to look up instead.
But for me, to look down and smile is just a away for me to let go. There’s no need to come up with a sensible reply. At this point, an intellectual conversation is out of the picture. This is pretty much a flirty situation. And looking down and smiling simply means, “Yeah! Let’s spend this time flirting with each other.” So be careful, ladies. That’s one dead giveaway.
This is pretty much a flirty situation. And looking down and smiling simply means, “Yeah! Let’s spend this time flirting with each other.”
Twirling The Hair
Most ladies love to play with their hair. I’m guilty of this sometimes. If my hair isn’t tied in a ponytail, I usually play around with it. It maybe a sign of boredom, I don’t know. But I read somewhere that if we play around with our hair in public; it means we’re unconsciously seeking attention. That’s good to know. But I don’t exactly know how true it is.
But Joshua is more precise with his observation. He states in his book that if we twirl our hair, we’re attracted to our date. Honestly, this is not even debatable. I just have to admit that he’s right. Admittedly, I would twirl my hair if I were flirting to my hot date. Yes, this is one body language that clearly says a lot.
The fact is, I wouldn’t twirl my hair if I were out with someone I didn’t like. First of all, I wouldn’t stay long enough in a boring date to twirl my hair. If you get what I mean!
The Eye Movement
Here’s another body movement that’s very revealing. I was never been conscious about up until now. It took The Tao Of Badass to make me realize this. So ladies, keep this mind.
Apparently, if we’re into the guy we make this particular eye movement. Joshua calls it the “triangulation.” We look at the guy in a triangular eye movement. So we start to look at the guy’s eye. We move from one eye to another, then to his mouth. That is the “triangulation” eye movement.
In The Tao Of Badass, Joshua tells the guys to watch out for this eye movement. According to him, this eye movement indicates the best time to kiss a girl.
So ladies that could be a good hint for us as well. If we want the guy to kiss us, let’s keep this “triangulation” eye movement in mind as well. Thanks, Joshua!
Gents, Now Trending
So ladies that could be a good hint for us as well. If we want the guy to kiss us, let’s keep this “triangulation” eye movement in mind as well. Thanks, Joshua!
Qualifying And Selling Ourselves
Oh, yeah! This is so true. I agree with Joshua here as well. According to him, a sure sign that a girl likes a guy is when she starts qualifying herself. In a way, she’s selling herself to him. It may sound kind of straightforward but yeah, it’s just so true.
Come on, ladies! How many times have we pretended to like something because our hot date likes it?
According to him, a sure sign that a girl likes a guy is when she starts qualifying herself.
“Oh! You play football? Wow! I love football!” Right! Even if you’d rather wash your hair on a Monday Night Football.
“I love that place. Yes, their music amazing!” Right! Since when did you like reggae!
These are just a few instances when we sell ourselves. Of course Joshua has a much longer list which he reveals in in his book, The Tao Of Badass. So ladies, we have just been busted! But we just got to hand it to Joshua. He read us well.
Disclosure: Compensated Affiliate. Click here for details.
Any other dead giveaways that we should be aware of?
Ladies, Now Trending
This Simple Texting System Can Get Your Ex Back By Next Week | How To Get Him To Beg You To Be His Girlfriend With Just 1 Kiss | Just Say This Phrase Tonight And You'll Have Him Wrapped Around Your Fingers |
---|
What Men Secretly Want (But Could Never Tell You) | Make Him Beg For You To Come Back No Matter Why He Left You | Say This Secret Dirty Phrase To Make A Man Sexually Obsessed With You |
---|
Gents, Now Trending
What more can I say? Ever since the beginning of mankind, there has always been a constant struggle between man and woman. It has always been a love-hate relationship. The funny thing is, throughout the existence of this man-woman relationship, there never has been a perfect … Read more
It’s not easy for some guys to pinpoint the qualifying stage. I should know because I had no idea what that was until I read the book. At least now, I can tell. 🙂
In retrospect, yes, I actually use the technique of qualifying if I find my date cute. I want him to know that I am worth dating again:)
I’m also guilty of using (or maybe abusing) the qualifying technique…but then again, I think every girl does it especially if she wants to see the guy again. The guy just really needs to figure out the sign.
Now that I think about it, I actually do twirl my hair if I like the guy that I’m talking to. OMG! It’s that obvious!
I was thinking of getting a copy of The Tao of Badass for my boyfriend but I think I should read it first.
I’m actually reading it now and I’m totally amazed at how Joshua was able to figure us out. His tips for guys leave us a huge space to be ourselves. I just love it!
Ha Ha Ha! That Joshua’s a genius! I’m reading the book and you’ve NOT even covered half of the list. You’re absolutely right! Ladies, you have been busted! I just love the “triangulation” look.